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You’re Not Crazy. You’re Just Tired of Losing Yourself in Love.
You love deeply.
You pray for him.
You see his potential.
But somewhere along the way…you started shrinking.
You started explaining away red flags.
Lowering your standards. Silencing your needs to keep the peace.
You told yourself:
“He’s just going through something.”
“If I love him harder, he’ll change.”
“Maybe I’m asking for too much.”
But the truth? You’re not asking for too much.
You’ve just been accepting too little.
And now you’re exhausted.
Emotionally drained.
Spiritually conflicted.
Torn between loyalty and your own peace.
You don’t want to give up on love.
You just don’t want to keep abandoning yourself to keep it.
If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive.
I Know This Because I Lived It.
.....he will give a crown of beauty for ashes
(Isaiah 61:3)
There was a season in my life when I confused chaos with love.
I silenced my needs to keep the relationship alive.
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On the outside, I looked strong.
But inside, I was breaking.
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I told myself I was being patient.
I told myself love required sacrifice.
I told myself if I just held on a little longer, things would change.
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But the truth?
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The only thing changing… was me.
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And not in a good way.
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I was losing my peace.
My confidence.
My voice.
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Until one day, I realized something had to shift.
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Not him.
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Me.
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That was the moment she chose herself.
That was the moment “I Am Her” was born.
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​The woman who stayed too long isn’t the woman standing here today.
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"Every scar that you have is a reminder not just that you got hurt, but that you survived."
- Michelle Obama
“You’ve got to learn to leave the table when love’s no longer being served.”
- Nina Simone
“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.”
- Maya Angelou